How to Use Uthur's Tongue Silicone Toy: Beginner Tips
By Strange Bedfellas Shop | Published: 2026-10-30
Category: How-to Guides
New to the Uthur's Tongue? This step-by-step guide covers preparation, insertion, cleaning, and safety tips for first-time users of this unique silicone toy.
Quick answer
Start by choosing the right firmness and size for your experience level, then follow a simple prep, insert, and clean routine to get the most from your Uthur's Tongue toy.
Understanding firmness and size
Uthur's Tongue toys come in different silicone firmnesses and sizes. The Large Uthur's Tongue (UT-89) uses Super Soft (0020) silicone, which is very pliable and forgiving for beginners. The Medium Uthur's Tongue (UT-87) uses Near Clear 31* silicone, which is slightly firmer and offers more texture feel. Choose based on your comfort with pressure and your experience level.
Step-by-step beginner guide
- 1. Choose your toy and check the material: Select either the Large Super Soft (UT-89) or Medium Near Clear (UT-87) based on your comfort level. Confirm the toy is made of body-safe silicone and free from visible defects. Always inspect before first use.
- 2. Clean your toy before first use: Wash with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry. Avoid harsh chemicals or boiling unless the manufacturer states it's safe. Never use alcohol or acetone on silicone.
- 3. Apply plenty of water-based lubricant: Silicone toys require water-based lube. Apply generously to the tip and shaft. Reapply as needed during use to avoid friction or discomfort. Silicone-based lube can damage the toy.
- 4. Start slowly and listen to your body: Insert the tip gently, pausing to let muscles relax. The Uthur's Tongue shape is tapered, so you can control depth. Stop if you feel sharp pain. Pain means stop; adjust angle or use more lube.
- 5. Experiment with angles and pressure: The tongue-like curve can target different spots. Rotate the toy slightly or change the insertion angle to find what feels best. The Super Soft option bends easily for comfort. Aim for pleasure, not depth.
- 6. Clean thoroughly after each use: Wash with soap and warm water or use a toy cleaner. Dry completely before storing in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight and other toys. Store separately to avoid silicone-on-silicone damage.
Product facts you should know
- Large Uthur's Tongue -- Super Soft silicone -- UT-89: Large Uthur's Tongue in Super Soft (0020) silicone, total length 7.75 inches, usable length 5.25 inches, tip diameter 1.4 inches, widest shaft diameter 2.4 inches. The Super Soft firmness makes this a great choice for beginners because it bends and compresses easily, reducing pressure during insertion.
Large Uthur's Tongue -- Super Soft silicone -- UT-89 - Medium Uthur's Tongue -- Near Clear 31* silicone -- UT-87: Medium Uthur's Tongue in Near Clear 31* silicone, total length 6.5 inches, usable length 4.5 inches, tip diameter 1.1 inches, widest shaft diameter 2 inches. The slightly firmer silicone provides more distinct texture sensation, ideal for users who want a bit more feedback from the toy.
Medium Uthur's Tongue -- Near Clear 31* silicone -- UT-87
